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Maturing Kindly: Expressing Gratitude


Thanksgiving may be over but gratitude should never end.

The concept of gratefulness was introduced to me very early in my childhood. During our annual thanksgiving dinner, we would join hands with another family member or friend and form a prayer circle. As each of us spoke what we were thankful for, I recall feeling anxiety about what I was going to say because I feared my reasoning wouldn’t be as good as the sentiments before mine. With the assurance of a gentle squeeze, I uttered my truth. Whether my testimony was one sentence or three, each year I gained more courage to express my happiness for making it to another level in my life.

Because of that experience, I’ve learned three ways to keep gratefulness at forefront:

Firstly, there is no time limit for gratitude. Contrary to popular belief, thanksgiving isn’t an assigned time slot for thankfulness. Victories and defeats happen to us daily. Unfortunately, we aren’t promised the luxury of another minute let alone another day, so it’s vital to unapologetically bask in the tests we’ve passed.

Secondly, no testimony is insignificant. More often than not, we hold back on displaying triumphs because we believe they’re not big enough. We believe no one will agree with us or see why it’s a big deal so we wait for something worthy for public appeal. To our detriment, we rob ourselves of encouraging others because blessings come through transparency not calculated relevance. In addition, every circumstance we champion is life-changing in some aspect. If we decide we’re just thankful for breathing, that’s enough.